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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago

    While I am in general a huge advocate for men to feel safe to cry without ridicule and have cried a lot during heavy depression, I see no reason to do so now.

    What the broken cracker means, I have zero idea, so I googled “anti cracker aktion” and only got result about campaigns to ban firecrackers, which seems perfectly resonable, but I suspect it means something different here.










  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago

    lol. There is no point in bickering further now that you have started with the insults and ascribed me views that I do not hold, I am not the terrible person you think of, and I will not stoop down to your level and fling insults at you.

    So instead I am just going to wish you a pleasant weekend and hope you realize that not everything is as you believe it to be, much less so on the internet.



  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago
    1. Yes I do believe that most of what I posted here is fine apart from two comments.

    2. Ignorant is often used as an insult, but I se and concede your point.

    3. I am annoyed at the post talking about skin color when it wasn’t needed to make the point. I suppose I get pissed off since I am a white man who tries his best and get lumped in with this shit, I remember back ten years ago when femenists talked about ceyibg men and how they were drinking male tears, I webt through a very tough period of time then and cried a lot, and I guess I took and still take it a bit too personal.

    4. I am fine with a bit of hostillity, but do get extra annoyed when people just assume the worst and come in all guns blazing taking everything I say as being completely terrible and decide I am a horrible person.



  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago

    why can’t you understand we wouldn’t like like people like you especially when it’s always the same tired bullshit from people like you.

    Where did this come from?

    I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”, the rest of my comments in this thread have been mostly fine.

    So no, I don’t understand the intense dislike for me here, re read my comments and please see if I am so terrible.




  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago

    I am a realist, which is why I am trying show that I am no troll the only way I can, by trying to have a polite conversation.

    Though I am starting to get the picture that some people who still are downvoting me would rather see me insulting and crapping sll over the thread, which just reenforce the importance of not doing that.


  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoScience Memes@mander.xyzdegree in bamf
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    6 months ago

    Ok, I can sort of see your explanation, but I disagree with you on the fact that other people should not be expected to explain their viewpoints to a person they disagree with.

    Not explaining just leads to bickering, with no one getting any point across.

    But if you explain the other party may gain a better understanding.