• andros_rex@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Mates, makeup ain’t for y’all. You know how you spent eight hours messing with your .bashrc or rolling for counter strike skins or whatever weirdass hobby you have? You don’t do it because you are trying to attract women - you see your friends get into something cool and you get competitive with them. That’s what it is for the womenfolk. They get their nails did and do weird ass makeup looks because it’s a fun hobby. They know that you probably don’t care about the difference between coffin and ballerina nails. But their friends do, and they want to show off, because it’s fun.

  • ChexMax@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    No but they absolutely do say, “Wow you look really pretty today” but have no idea why.

    Men treat you nicer when you wear makeup.

    The other day my coworker said, “you look different. I don’t know what it is, but you look great. I think you’ve been getting a lot of rest” nope. Just wore makeup that day

    My husband, many times, has been looking at me, admiring me, and complimenting me on how naturally beautiful I am without realizing I just filled my eyebrows in that day and have darker lashes rather than blonde lashes.

    Just because men have the privilege of ignorance doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to made up faces.

    • MrSqueezles@lemm.ee
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      10 months ago

      I believe the post is specifically about long eyelashes, fake eyelashes.

      That said, my wife has worn makeup twice in 18 years. I love her for being herself, but I complimented her on how nice she looked those two times her sister did her makeup because I’m not a complete jerk and have some idea of how to be kind when someone has spent an hour trying to look nice. I also attempted to make it clear that I preferred her without makeup, maybe something along the lines of, “I love how naturally beautiful you are.”

      Just because some women consider men to be ignorant doesn’t mean we are.