Im going to use this comment to explain this idea to people. Im a lefty too and I grew up almost just like you. Whenever I try to explain this , it always comes out like I’m an apologist for all the crappy stuff they do and it makes people think I’m a closeted conservative. I have never once seen this explained so perfectly and succinctly. Thanks for sharing, really
Man that comment made probably the most devastating and well reasoned point. That’s why you “don’t want to debate”. There is no debate, you said something dumb and tripled down on it. Try not to do that