• Adkml [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    8 months ago

    Because everybody makes the same shitty comments and it’s almost more tiring than anything.

    If you so graciuosly “accept that we may dislike you” why can’t you understand we wouldn’t like people like you especially when it’s always the same tired bullshit from people like you.

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      8 months ago

      why can’t you understand we wouldn’t like like people like you especially when it’s always the same tired bullshit from people like you.

      Where did this come from?

      I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”, the rest of my comments in this thread have been mostly fine.

      So no, I don’t understand the intense dislike for me here, re read my comments and please see if I am so terrible.

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        8 months ago

        Someone is telling you there are issues with your posts, you then went looking at your own posts and saying to yourself “no, the rest of these are fine”

        Do you not see the issue here?

        You didn’t know any of them were not fine in the first place, that’s why you posted them, because you were ignorant about the context and implications

        Not an insult, ignorant means you were unaware. Continuing in ignorance after it’s been pointed out, however…

        That’s some dumbass shit right there

        To reiterate: it is almost unbelievible to me that someone could see this situation and genuinely be clueless as to why it matters that the asshole in the post is an old white man.

        That and the fact that hours later you still seem not to grasp why that stance was treated with such hostility, is why we’re treating you with even more hostility

        Because you’re either a lost cause

        or

        you know exactly what you’re doing and you’re doing it on purpose

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          8 months ago
          1. Yes I do believe that most of what I posted here is fine apart from two comments.

          2. Ignorant is often used as an insult, but I se and concede your point.

          3. I am annoyed at the post talking about skin color when it wasn’t needed to make the point. I suppose I get pissed off since I am a white man who tries his best and get lumped in with this shit, I remember back ten years ago when femenists talked about ceyibg men and how they were drinking male tears, I webt through a very tough period of time then and cried a lot, and I guess I took and still take it a bit too personal.

          4. I am fine with a bit of hostillity, but do get extra annoyed when people just assume the worst and come in all guns blazing taking everything I say as being completely terrible and decide I am a horrible person.

          • AOCapitulator [they/them]@hexbear.net
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            8 months ago

            I get you on 3. and your feelings are totally valid

            1. sorry this was friendly fire, it almost always isnt and is worth the risk, but I am sorry if that means anything to ya
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              8 months ago

              Thank you, am glad we at least can see eachother as people and not just trolls trying to mess with eachother

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                  8 months ago

                  Try to keep that in mind, and I will try to keep in mind that some comments are just too much work to post.

                  Well the time is almost 23:15, gotta get to sleep so I can get up and wash my very dirty car tomorrow, have a great weekend!

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        8 months ago

        Take a look at the fucking thread and note the thirty other identical comments all being as intentionally totally stupid and ignorant as you are.

        That where the hostility comes from. You assholes constantly making the same dogshit excuses for having the exact same political beliefs as chuds but still acting morally superior to people who don’t reflexively get offended if somebody dares criticize some old white asshole.

        If you still don’t understand why the smug sanctimonious asshole being an old white dude and is relevant to women’s experience I stem please for the love of God at least shit the fuck up and stop feigning ignorance. It’s really obvious at this point nobody’s going to change your mind because you’re determined to disregard anything that criticizes white hegemony. Just like the chuds you love yo look down on while having the exact same belief system.

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        8 months ago

        I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”

        nobody needed to see more than this to know you weren’t worth their time

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          8 months ago

          Anyone that easily offended that they won’t even consider asking why is probably not someone I would stand anyway.

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              8 months ago

              While I am in general a huge advocate for men to feel safe to cry without ridicule and have cried a lot during heavy depression, I see no reason to do so now.

              What the broken cracker means, I have zero idea, so I googled “anti cracker aktion” and only got result about campaigns to ban firecrackers, which seems perfectly resonable, but I suspect it means something different here.