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Cake day: November 9th, 2023

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  • In all seriousness, I moved out with my step sister shortly after finishing school and it was actually a really functional relationship, even though was a very dysfunctional human being.

    You had the companionship of a close friend, that didn’t have the traditional responsibilities of family - our parents only got together about 2 years before we moved out - but because it wasn’t romantic we could still pursue a love life independently without the jealousy or desperation you might otherwise have. It also helped that I’m a cis male and she is a lesbian - so we had similar interests in that way.

    We lived together for two years and I sort of count it as one of my “serious” relationships - I had 2, 2 year+ relationships before this, and the next one was my wife - who I met at the next share house!